I have become the woman I hardly dared imagine I could be. There are parts I don’t love–until a few years ago, I had no idea that you could have cellulite on your stomach–but not only do I get along with me most of the time now, I am militantly and maternally on my own side. Left to my own devices, would I trade this for firm thighs, fewer wrinkles, a better memory? You bet I would. That is why it’s such a blessing that I’m not left to my own devices. . Anne Lamott
About This Quote

In this paragraph, Joan Didion discusses how she has changed as a result of her new roles as mother and wife. She had not realized that there were parts of her that she disliked until she became a mother. This is a common problem that many first-time mothers experience. Being a first-time mother can change a woman's body and life in ways she had not planned for.

In order to help her cope with the changes, Didion talks about how she has developed as a person who is more firm on her opinions, has fewer wrinkles and has a better memory. Her self-confidence as a woman has greatly improved as well as her self-image.

Source: Plan B: Further Thoughts On Faith

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